Ralph, θέλω να γνωρίζεις πολύ καλά,

Ralph, θέλω να γνωρίζεις πολύ καλά, ότι είμαι στο πλευρό σου κάτω από οιαδήποτε συνθήκες. Θέλω επίσης να ξέρεις ότι δεν με ενοχλείς καθόλου, προσπαθώ να νιώσω το δικό σου πρόβλημα, και δικό μου πρόβλημα και εάν δεν το γνωρίζω, δεν μπορώ να σε βοηθήσω. Αν η αγάπη μας βασίζεται στο να μην λέμε και να μην ακούμε ποτέ «όχι», τότε αυτό δεν είναι αγάπη. Είναι μια εμπορική συναλλαγή, όπου δίνουμε αγάπη στον άλλον μόνον όταν μας δίνει κάτι πίσω. Αν καθορίζουμε όρια με φόβο ή ενοχή, δεν μπορούμε να είμαστε ευτυχισμένοι. Η ευτυχία απαιτεί να μπορούμε να αποδεχόμαστε και να καθορίζουμε όρια με αγάπη. Αλλιώς θα βιώσουμε φόβο, καταπίεση, θυμό και ενοχή. Εγώ αυτό που αισθάνομαι θέλω να το δείχνω, δεν φοβάμαι ότι να έρθω σε σύγκρουση με τον άλλον,δεν φοβάμαι ότι θα χάσω την αγάπη και την αποδοχή του άλλου. Η ελευθερία είναι βασική προϋπόθεση για την ευτυχία.

Αποτελέσματα (Αγγλικά) 1:

Ralph, I want to know very well, that I am on your side under any circumstances. I also want you to know that it doesn't bother me at all, I try to feel your own problem, and my own problem and if you don't know, I can't help you. If our love is based on not saying and not ever hear "no", then it isn't love. It is a commercial transaction where we give love to each other only when they give us something back. If we define boundaries with fear or guilt, we cannot be happy. Happiness requires to be able to accept and to set boundaries with love. Otherwise we will experience fear, oppression, anger and guilt. I do what I feel I want to show, that I'm not afraid to come into conflict with each other, I am not afraid that you will lose the love and acceptance of the other. Freedom is a basic condition for happiness.

Αποτελέσματα (Αγγλικά) 2:

Ralph, I want to know very well, I'm on your side under any conditions. You also know that not bother me at all, try to feel your own problem and my problem and if you do not know, I can not help you. If our love is based on not say and never hear "no", then it is not love. It is a commercial transaction, where we love to another only when he gives us something back. If we define limits with fear or guilt, we can not be happy. Happiness requires that we accept and define boundaries with love. Otherwise we will experience fear, oppression, anger and guilt. I do what I feel I want to show, that I am not afraid to come into conflict with each other, I fear that I will lose the love and acceptance of others. Freedom is a basic prerequisite for happiness.

Αποτελέσματα (Αγγλικά) 3:

Ralph, I want you to know that I"m under your side. I also know that you don"t bother me, I can feel your problem, my question, if I don"t know, I can"t help you. If our love is not to say "no", we don"t want to hear, it is not love. It"s a business deal, only when we"re in love with each other. If we define the boundaries of worry or fear, we are not happy. Happiness takes us to accept and define the boundaries of love. Otherwise, we will experience fear, depression, anger and guilt. I want to give me the feeling that I"m afraid to collide with each other, not afraid to lose love and accept others. Freedom is the basic condition of happiness.